Sunday, 26 August 2018

Do Smart Men Consider Deep Dressing?

 Deep dressing is a way to show an appreciation for life’s colors, textures, shapes and details. That we are more than our clothes, allowing us to dress for simple, safe and sometimes overt pleasures. One can dress not just “for” respect but “to” respect.

In sartorial terms one may not take clothing too seriously and learn and enjoy dressing up a notch to practice one’s manners and generosity (in kind). Shakespeare once said, “the whole world’s a stage” You might even say it’s an urban adventure.  Ironically often those that have developed good character without dressing often benefit the most, when they do dress. This happens naturally as deep dressers use clothing to frame, not overshadow the character, allowing them to build the wardrobe and their people skills together.  Many brand followers (sartorial idolatry) do so as a natural consequence of spiritual devoid, treating tailoring as part of cloth and material with no human intermediary. In doing so sort of dehumanize themselves by not understanding the elements of tailoring, that is completion of shape (so only rumples or relaxed cloth that can later be pressed, remains)

Clothing is everyman’s art and part of personal culture. This healthy human activity is part of our documented human need for rituals and the third level of humanities better behaviors according to psychologists. Underneath, Games and Postulate (spirit based education, philosophy, story-telling) The study of our environment including clothing is called Aesthetics.

When we stop thinking or questioning, we start believing, forfeiting the wisdom of insecurity. Einstein maintained that he was not a genius but simply suspended and reflected on issues rather than disregard them. Like being on stage a little insecurity is invigorating and human. It’s a practice that is healthy. Immunologists maintain that low stress and high stress are hard on the system, but medium stress and relaxation is a good practice. So if its what’s inside that counts, then are we not being insipid by dressing neutral or mediocre? Are we not sabotaging ourselves by not showing up with a little visual generosity? Psychologists deal with more and more people that pretend that they have no power, no goals, and fail at self-esteem to creatively proudly, “pay it forward”, band be grateful. Here erroneous belief is that if its what’s inside that counts then one should turn the inside to the outside. It becomes a rite of passage to be a role model, not just to quietly do good. The men’s mandate is to enjoy being fully present with evidence of some competence visually and emotionally to compliment others with deep listening skills.

Fashion without reflection and rapport is superficial. Dressing with the intervention of an unbiased person helps to humanize the purchase, especially when it is personalized to fit to the body there is commitment and substance. Deep dressing involves more than just personal value but practicing being complimentary and creating rapport with honorable 

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